- Fight, fight, fight!
- Be a good husband/partner/lover -- but don't care too much what women think.
- Be hot to trot. Always. With anybody.
- Stiff upper lip.
- Fear of being perceived as gay.
- Make money.
- Win, win, win!
- Be physically strong.
- Fix stuff.
- Get it up.
I suppose sometimes that's not obvious because as a woman, I feel more comfortable and informed blogging about woman's issues. That doesn't mean I'm disregarding the other side. As an analogy, I don't frequently blog about the issues of racial minorities - not because I don't think they're important, but because as a white person 1) I don't feel informed enough to do the issue justice and 2) I'm in a position of privilege so I don't have to think about racial issues all the time. But areas I'm not privileged in, namely gender and religion, are frequently on my mind, so they get turned into blog posts.
So, don't worry, guys. Not all feminists are castration fantasizing man-haters. ...You may want to avoid Thailand, though.